![]() ![]() In the sixth week of pregnancy, the process of sexual differentiation began. Messages traveled between the rapidly multiplying cells that had not yet differentiated into specific organs and tissues, switching genes on and off under instructions from the master template, guiding my development. Just after my mother’s egg and my father’s sperm united, each contributing an X chromosome to my female genotype, skeins of DNA began to uncoil and replicate. The body and the brain are an open city, built on the constant exchange of information. Some differences run much deeper than custom, the primary one being the deeply felt and ineradicable sense that one is male or female-or neither.īut gender differences cannot be rooted in culture alone, because my body (what’s below my neck) and my brain (what’s above my neck) are not divided by some kind of biological Berlin Wall. But I have largely abandoned the belief that all the differences we note between men and women are purely a matter of social custom. I am happy to live in a society that has struggled to eradicate limiting beliefs and practices that have kept both men and women from realizing their full potential as human beings. Boys could cry, and girls could compete boys could be nurses, homemakers, and teachers (the nurturing professions), and girls could be fighter pilots, police officers, and firefighters (the warrior professions). I grew up in a time when increasing numbers of people believed that the differences between males and females were socially constructed, and that if children were raised to understand that there were no essential differences between being born in a male body and being born in a female body, we would all be “free to be”-free of all gender-based boundaries and limitations, free of social stereotypes based on genital distinctions. I’ll have more to say about Baron-Cohen’s hypothesis later, but for now it’s enough to point out that it does provide an explanation for the kinds of everyday differences we notice between men and women-and that the hypothesis is viewed as reactionary by those who deny any essential biological difference between male and female brains. Males are driven to analyze, explore, and construct systems while women tend to identify with other people’s thoughts, feelings, and emotions in an attempt to understand and predict behavior. In The Essential Difference, the British psychiatrist Simon Baron-Cohen proposes an explanation for these and other differences in male and female interests and abilities: the average woman has an “empathizing” brain while the average male has a “systematizing” brain. Their baffled brother finds their interest in the personal lives of strangers incomprehensible: “You don’t know these people,” he is apt to snap when subjected to yet another conversation about the latest juicy celebrity gossip. ![]() They are intensely interested in the lives of acquaintances and celebrities, however, and have prodigious memories for who has dated, married, and dumped whom and whose career is foundering because of what ill-advised choices. My daughters were completely uninterested in the peace movement or the war itself for them the political was not at all personal. ![]() This may be a kind of progress, but it is not the equality between the sexes once envisioned by feminists. Women have been liberated to become rakes and workaholics, and men have won the freedom to drift aimlessly in a kind of perpetual adolescence. We wanted the best of both worlds instead it seems sometimes that we have the worst of each. The qualities our culture respects and rewards are the traditionally masculine traits of independence, assertiveness, and enlightened self-interest, and feminism has done nothing to change that. Virtues traditionally gendered female (modesty, gentleness, and emotional generosity) were scorned by those who viewed them as a pathetic accommodation to the patriarchal status quo. The unspoken assumption seemed to be that only a chump would sacrifice her career advancement to take care of babies. I remember very well the patronizing attitudes I encountered from other women when I chose to remain at home with my preschool children during the eighties. ![]() Yet I, like many women, have also felt ambivalent about some of the results of that revolution. CONVERSATION WITH CHELSEA GOODWIN AND RUSTY MAE MOORE, PH.D.CONVERSATION WITH BEN BARRES, M.D., PH.D.Science, Activism, and Transgender Rights ![]()
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